Saturday, October 23, 2010

September

Chase arrives at the Boston Mission home. Here he is with President and Sister Evans.






Rayne turns 21!! For her birthday dinner she chose poor boy sandwiches and the best dessert this side of heaven, sticky toffee pudding. Deeee-licious.



Isaiah bought her a gorgeous necklace for her birthday. He is getting really good at gift giving!



The kitties are getting bigger all the time--and are still so adorable!









We went to Sea Cliff beach this month. I really think that my favorite times at the beach are during the Fall and Winter. The tide was very far in, further than I've ever seen it. It washed over all the beach where we usually sit and even chased us back within a few feet of the back fence. It washed over the rise in the middle of the beach and created a river of sorts right in front of us. Totally cool. The kids spent more time in that "river" than they did in the actual ocean. They rode the boogie board down the river until the ranger stopped them, warning them that they might hit the poles of the pier....seemed unlikely, but we are compliant people, so they stopped the boogie board rides.





Towards the end of our day at the beach, a seal came out of the ocean and onto the sand. He just stayed there! People would come up to him and take photos and just hang around and he was very mellow. I guess he's used to people!


















When we returned home from the beach, Scott, James and Vincent (nephews) were allowed to spend a few days with us. That evening they played some sort of murder detective game. Vincent is the bloody victim. Gory, isn't he?

In other news, Isaiah got his second class AND first class ranks in boy scouts. He also earned several merit badges. He's set a goal to get his Eagle WAY before his brother did. And that shouldn't be too terribly difficult since Chase got those Eagle papers in the day before his 18th birthday.

It's been a quiet and nice month. We miss Chase a lot. Letters are so different from face-to-face contact. Of course. It's fun to hear his voice in the e-mails, though, and he does sound quite happy. And we're so proud of him!

Our Chase

A few days in August held all these things:

Last visit to the beach:












A good-bye open house: Isn't the cake amazing? A friend in our ward has a cake making business and she made this for Chase's open house. The coolest cake ever!



Visits from family: My wonderful three brothers. Reed lives locally and so does Ben. Gerald is in town from Taiwan and the timing is pefect. He's been able to not only visit with us, but be here for Jacqueline's baptism and some of Chase's farewell activities.



Packing:














Tossing:
















Driving: Cliff, Rayne, Chase and I all squished ourselves in the truck to go to Provo. Cliff and I started out in the front seat, but Chase soon became very uncomfortable in the back seat and he took over driving, Cliff in the passenger's seat and I and Rayne in the back. I had a lot of fun with Rayne in the back. Chase was relieved to drive so he had the front seat in which to stretch his legs. He was not very talkative, though, because he was so upset at having to leave Isaiah behind. Isaiah was equally upset. It will take awhile before the boys, so close to each other, will be able to see the good things about being apart while Chase is on his mission.

A ride in Brad's corvette: If Brad is reading this, I have to apologize for the photo. I had a choice of a photo that showed the handsome faces of both Chase and Brad, OR I had a photo that showed the best view of the car. I chose the car. I'm betting Brad won't mind. :)

Dressing (what's that MIB line? "The last suit you'll ever wear"... well, for at least the next 2 years anyway):


















Hugging good-bye:















Handing over the cell phone and
the unneccesary wallet items: About 10 minutes after we dropped Chase off at the MTC, his cousin Kyllian called his cell phone to say a last good-bye. Sweet and sad.















After we dropped Chase off at the MTC, Cliff and I dropped Rayne off with her friend and he and I drove to Colorado to pick up some furniture from my grandmother's house. Beautiful stuff, don't you think?We drove 5 hours to Colorado, packed up the furniture for 2 hours and drove 7 hours back to Provo through a windy rainstorm, stopping repeatedly to recover the furniture, arriving at the Hutchings house at 4 in the morning. What a marathon! It was good to be alone with Cliff for some hours, though, to process my feelings and to talk. And I love my grandma's furniture.



Cleaning afterwards: We came home and immediately finished packing Chase's stuff and cleaning out his room. Like tearing off a band-aid, nice and quick. I think his room will be the cleanest it's EVER been for the next 2 years. At least THIS room will be clean... who knows what his room in the Boston area looks like.

I'll really miss him; we all will. But he's doing the right thing and we all know it. These are gonna be a great 2 years. Go Chase!

Catching up: August

Lots going on this month!! Cliff has been doing tons of outside and inside projects. He is really good at letting the kids help him, so I hope they're learning stuff. In any case, our windows are clean, the birds' nests are removed AND I have 3 "new" shelves in my piano room and ALL of my books are now INSIDE (more below).









How do you wash windows that are 15 feet off the ground? We've been asking ourselves that question for the last 3 years or so. Especially after some messy birds moved into the eaves and their..leavings were...left all over those windows. Finally, this month my dad rented a boom (I think that's what it's called). He made a few trips in the basket and then turned it over to Cliff, who washed all those windows and then took the kids for rides.

Our poor trampoline's life has been very difficult since we moved to the country. It gets blown apart in the winter and bakes in the sun all summer. When Chase and Allegra pulled it out of storage and put it back together this month, it didn't survive the operation. After a long and valiant performance as our most fun toy, our trampoline has retired.

Chase and Isaiah and Cliff spent hours this month rebuilding the cages around the photinia bushes. The old cages were constricting those poor little babies and they seem much bigger now that they're free. And the deer won't be able to nip off those little branches of new growth that have been sneaking out of the smaller enclosures.

My father has been waging a war on these sticky, tenacious weeds since we got here. Isaiah is being paid well to pull or dig them out, a hot, sweaty, unpleasant job that he has been working on for days. Go Isaiah!
Death to weeds!

Meanwhile, indoors, Cliff has been refinishing bookcases. I love books. I have a lot of books. For many years I have been unable to house all those books. They have been in boxes, then later unpacked onto shelves in a few garages, and finally, on shelves in our "dungeon" (the big, windowless storage area at the front of our house). I have really disliked having them in all these places. I prefer to have my books places where I can see them. It's just a thing I have.This summer my sweet Cliff spent many hours sanding, rebuilding, adding trim, staining, and finishing my 3 big bookshelves from the dungeon so they would look nice enough to move into the piano room. FINALLY I have been able to move all my books into the house. Of course, I had to give away a third of my mysteries, but that was no sacrifice, since I kept the ones I like best and that I thought I might reread (you know you read too many mysteries when you forget enough to be able to read some of them again and still be surprised at the endings!). I am grateful for such a handy husband! Now my job is to acquire more books s...l...o...w...l...y so I don't run out of bookshelf space. I've got bookshelves in every room now (well, not the kitchen or the bathrooms) and I need to wait until I gain an empty bedroom that I can turn into a library before I can expand my book collection, I think. And that's still some years in the future. :)

Another indoor project: we adopted 3 kittens named Walter, Tiki and Lily. They are VERY cute and very full of mischief. These kitties are destined to join our outside cats, Tangerine and Cherry, as hunters. We're dreaming of a 5 cat rodent killing team out there. Meanwhile, we get the pleasure and exasperation of 3 little kitties in the house. They've poked holes in my drapes, chewed up my houseplants, knocked over any stray waterglasses, left little paw prints all over my piano... and climbed onto my lap purring while I'm reading, spent hours entertaining Isaiah and Allegra, put up with manhandling from my neices and nephews, given us all little kitty kisses, and have given me the pleasure of hearing my husband talk baby talk while he's petting Walter, who threads in and out of his ankles while Cliff is cooking. I'm eager for them to get outside and do what they were born to do, but they're still too little live out there yet. And to be truthful, I am really enjoying them around the house.

Next blog entry: Chase leaves us for the MTC.

Catching up: July


Chase turns 19!! We had a birthday celebration and TRIED not to give him too many mission-related gifts. He requested non-mission items. But... he's leaving in a month and it's hard to know what ELSE to give him since he'll be spending the next 2 years as a missionary! Happy birthday, dear Chase!

Cliff also had a birthday this month. My husband is: generous, funny, absolutely dependable, honest, hard-working, loving, giving, strong, skilled, thoughtful, handsome and just plain wonderful. I am forever grateful that he asked me to his Senior Ball in 1984. I love my husband! Happy birthday, honey!

(Note the chocolate peanut butter cake that I made totally secretly!!! He thought I did nothing, but I fooled him! Unfortunately, the cake was a bit disappointing. It was a recipe I found online and it was not a "keeper". But the thought was what counted, right sweetie?)

A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away I was roommates with some wonderful girls and friends with some wonderful people. I was lucky enough to meet with two of them in Monterey this month. Joey and Michelle are two of my very favorite people in the world. Fun to be with, honest, hard-working and wonderful. I love them both. Here we are in beautiful Monterey. Joey, Michelle and I spent the day in Monterey with our husbands, David, Sam and Cliff, accompanied by my friends' delightful daughters. It was a total pleasure.
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Joey Sue is on
the left


































Michelle is on the right.
Me! Thanks to Michelle's Sam for taking a picture of me that I don't hate!

Monterey is one of my favorite places on earth. I think it is beautiful in any weather, but today was a totally gorgeous day. I took lots of photos, as is my wont in Monterey. Michelle's sweet husband Sam not only took all the photos above, but also took the photo below with the view of the wharf and the seals. Beautiful.




Finally, my Vicki came home from her mission. She's been my girl since she was a young woman in my ward and I was her YW president. She served an honorable mission and loved it. I'm glad to have her back and I'm especially glad she's made time to come and visit. Welcome home, Vicks!

Catching up: June


In June our stake did a Pioneer Trek. Almost every member of my family went--my mom and dad were in charge of the "vignettes", my husband went up as part of the medical team, my Allegra went up as part of the youth group and my Chase went up as part of the "Sweetwater rescue" team. It was a remarkable experience for everyone. I am so PROUD of my Allegra (here, in her Pioneer clothing that she would wear for the entire 3 day trek) for making it! And I'm proud of my son for being part of one of the spiritual highlights of the trek. And I'm proud of my parents for working so hard at those vignettes, which helped the kids understand a bit of what the Pioneers experienced. Here's a photo of Chase carrying his grandmother across the water during the "Sweetwater rescue". He carried his sister across also. So sweet!


The hair battles contine. Doesn't her hair look great? Rayne is in the midst of "doing" her hair. I think Allegra secretly loves it. Allegra turned 15 also this month. Can you believe she starts driver's training in 6 months? I am NOT looking forward to that. But she certainly is. And I gotta admit that not having to drive her to seminary next year is a very happy prospect. But I just can't imagine her behind the wheel of a car! I have a feeling that every age milestone of hers will come as a surprise to me. She is my little girl! My LAST little girl, as a matter of fact, the older "little girl" being all grown up now. I am not ready for the absence of sweet, young Allegra. Of course, I'm holding out hope that I'll like sweet, older Allegra just as much.
This month also Isaiah (who turned 12 last month and was ordained to the office of a Deacon) went to the temple for the first time to do baptisms for the dead. He was accompanied by his cousin James who was spending the week with us.

This month was also: Father's Day (below: hat by Allegra, pot given by Rayne and Chase)

And we went on a couple of day trips with Chase (spending lots of time with him before he leaves on the mission). This place has been around forever and they say you can get your hamburger any way you want. We liked it, but thought it wasn't above average and cost a little too much for a diner. We still had a good time together, though, as usual. We love our Chase!!

And my nephew Scott graduated from Junior High school! What I wanna know is, when did they start having graduation ceremonies from Junior High school? Promotion, yeah, but can it possibly count as graduation? Hm. Still, Scott won every single award except for one. I was sitting by his mom and she was getting a little embarrassed by his repeated returning to the podium. :) He's such a nice boy. I love my nephews!!

Finally, the most important thing we did in June was to go to the temple with Chase. That was a very sweet experience. I have always dreamed of being in the temple with my children. Chase is the first fulfillment of that dream. Here he is with his Grandfather and Grandmother.

Monday, May 10, 2010

The hair wars continue... I want her hair down. She wants her hair up. I want the hair brushed all the time. She wants to brush on an "as-needed" basis and our definitions of "as-needed" differ. Greatly. If only her hair were my hair, I say, I would truly appreciate it. If she had my hair she could cut it short and forget about it. Sigh. Anyway, perhaps a temporary cease-fire has been reached--I am requested to brush and braid it on a daily basis. She has compassion on me. My beautiful girl.


















The tall man got all 4 wisdom teeth out. He did the manly thing: he drank his food and he took no vicodin. He kept waiting for the pain to be unbearable enough for the big drugs, but he ended up being fine with ibuprofen and ice. Ice especially for the first 24 hours. Things he didn't get to eat when his mouth was sore: pork chops, fish and chips (homemade), pizza, sweet and sour meatballs... I thought we should have eaten all his favorite things, but I'm just mean that way. I tenderly cared for him with: mashed potatoes, broth, yogurt, cottage cheese, diet shakes, ice cream, smooshed pasta, smooth chili. And! We forgot to take his mission photo before the extraction, so we had to take one the evening after his teeth were taken. Here he is, numbed (notice the inability to smile), swollen and very tired, with jeans on the bottom half and the new suit on the top half. Sweet man.


The CAR is almost done! Actually, it is done and sitting at school, drying in the paint booth. Chase says it looks really good. Here are photos of Chase in the painting booth and the car all primered and ready for the final coats.


He brings it home tomorrow. Here's the official description of how he chose to paint it: "black primer underneath red pearl in the clear coat". I can't wait to see it. I'll post photos. It's a totally original choice--he made it up himself. So, after months of body work and tons and tons of sanding, he is just about done. He says all he has left to do is the final very very very fine sanding (to get rid of the "orange peel look") and a buffing. Then it will be perfect. I think he might cry like a baby when he gets the first ding on that paint job. And I've already announced to all current and future adolescent drivers that no one but I and DAD will be driving the car while Chase is on the mission. For one thing, I can't wait to drop the insurance on a teenager driving a sports car!
And no, we have not yet received the mission call. We expect it any time. Maybe this week? Maybe next. All summer plans are on hold until we know what his schedule will be like. I've got butterflies in my stomach already, thinking about my very very nice son being away for so many months. And, you know, once they leave home, it's never quite the same again. However, in my experience, although it's certainly not the same, it's not less happy. A good change is okay with me. And he's making a good change.

My baby turned 12 this week and was ordained a Deacon in the Aaronic Priesthood. One of the things I love about him is his ability to take serious things seriously. He is an intense little boy when the matter is serious. He's a genuinely good boy too. Here he is with his birthday ice cream pie (probably the easiest dessert to make EVER), and with his birthday loot--one present every hour for the 12 hours of his 12th birthday. Note the pj bottoms that Allegra made out of outgrown t-shirts (wow!).


















A few weeks ago I drove to Idaho (by myself) to visit Rayne and help her get ready for her "literary pilgrimage"--the study abroad program that she got into this year. During spring break, when everyone's housing contracts end and begin and most students go home for the week, Rayne had to be on campus every day for 7 hours or so for the first of the two weeks her literary pilgrimage program spent on campus. Of course, her housing contract had expired the weekend before spring break and she had no new housing contract since she'd be leaving the country in 2 weeks. So, that left her homeless in Rexburg Idaho for 2 weeks. The first few days of the first week she moved in with a friend, slept in an empty bed (cuz the other tenants were still away for spring break) and lived out of her boxes. Then I came and we loaded all her boxes and suitcases and bags into the car and unloaded everything into my little hotel room. Can you tell which bed is hers? Rayne actually slept in that bed without removing any of the stuff from off the top of it. And our very sweet housecleaner at that hotel actually managed to make the bed after a fashion without disturbing our piles. Anyway, we spent some happy days packing and shopping and planning and going to dinner and hanging out with her friends before I finally shipped her boxes, transported her with her remaining things back to her friend's apartment and drove away. She slept on the floor at her friend's for another 5 days or so before she took the shuttle for SLC, slept on the floor at another friend's place for a few nights and finally got on the plane to Dublin, Ireland. Such a great experience for her! She's having a ball and has been to Ireland, England, Wales, England again, Wales again and will return once more to England before finishing the trip in France. I'm really looking forward to her return--I can't wait to see the photos and all the loot she's purchased!

So that sums up the last month, I guess. We're so blessed.